| The Filipina
Are you tired of the local dating scene? Are the women form your area just not what your mother said they would be. If you have been dating local women then you know how difficult singles at home can be. Tired of being rejected by women that make you feel very small, refusing to even answer positively when just asking for a dance, especially if you are a little older or carry a few extra pounds. Well, maybe you should be trying to introduce yourself to a Filipina. Filipinas are more tolerant and even blind when it comes to a man being older, overweight and less than perfect. At home the odds are stacked against the average guy - with Filipinas things are the opposite. At the very least most of them have never been married before so you aren't falling for someone else's ex-wife!
They look beyond what today's woman is searching for, as the Filipina still demands more in leadership from their man as the head of the family.
Filipinas are more traditional than many western women when it comes to marriage. They are still expecting to marry for life as divorce does not exist in the Philippines except as a long and expensive process known as annulment. Fil-Am marriages, seem to have a much higher success rate than many local combinations.
There are many problems associated with dating/courting a person from a different culture, with the language being the main detractor for both parties, however, most Filipinas are taught english in their school system and some of their language is a tagolog and english mixture. Still she will be a little embarrassed to you if she has not completed her schooling. (acutally, if you really listen to them as they struggle to communicate to you, it can be very sweet and enjoyable).
Long distance relationships are very difficult, and not all the Filipinas you will meet will fit the criteria listed above. There are some that are just looking more or less for a "sugar daddy", but you can normally figure these ladies out and move on.
There are many ways to meet a Filipina (the second generation local Filipinas tend to quickly pick up the local women attitude, so go find a real one in the Philippines). You can try the online dating sites, or webcam sites. (you can find many right here in this directory). Most of the girls working in those sites are only doing so because jobs are extremely difficult to come by, especially if she is not college educated. Try looking beyond the occupation and get to know the real girl behind the performer.
You can also take your next vacation in the Philippines. There you can really see the real Filipina.
Take it slow, get to know her and her family. (most Filipinas are very much into their families) If you can find a Filipina that is really interested in you, don't ignore her. She is probably the best thing that will ever happen to you.
Imagine how good it will be to have someone waiting for you when you arrive home after work. Someone who greets you at the door with a warm smile or has also lovingly prepared the evening meal. Your home is clean and tidy and there is nothing more for you to do than relax and enjoy the evening together.
Just remember, if you provide a loving and healthy home environment for your Filipina she will worship, adore, and be the best wife and mother you will find. Just be a little careful, they can be extremely possesive of you, so don't get out of line. Just enjoy your life with her as you can rest assured she will be with you for your lifetime if you so desire. |
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